Book sets out 9 principles of healthy living
- The Gazette, by June Thompson
Roslyn Franken knows a thing or two about the power of positive thinking and
perseverance.
Her mother survived the concentration camps of Nazi Germany and her father was a
prisoner of war in a slave labour camp in Nagasaki, Japan.
Montreal-born Franken credits both parents with instilling in her a strong sense of
purpose and determination. Such qualities came in handy when, at 29, she was given a
diagnosis of Hodgkin's lymphoma.
The incredibly upbeat 41-year- old, who now works in Ottawa, has turned her life
experience into a book, The A List: 9 Guiding Principles for Healthy Eating and Positive
Living (Book Coach Press, $22.95).
It's not a diet book, she said in an interview, but a "self-help book for
self-directed change," which, rather than focusing on weight loss, takes a holistic
approach to life. "It's not about the food you feed your mouth but about the thoughts
that feed your mind and the feelings you feed your soul."
The A-list principles are ambition, attitude, attainability, awareness, activity,
assessment, accountability, appreciation and acceptance.
Franken, who has a master's degree in applied human sciences from Concordia University,
developed these principles while working as a life coach.
She was helping people to set their goals, but she felt like a fraud. "Here I was
helping people get to where they wanted to be and I wasn't even there yet."
Looking at her own life and the lives of her clients, "there was a definite common
pattern among us, which helped set up the framework of the principles."
It took her 10 years to apply the steps outlined in her book and get to where she is
today. And to her, that's what the book is about - "a slow, realistic process of
change."
Each chapter examines one of the nine As and offers a series of questions designed to
help you "dig a little deeper in order to understand yourself better." And that
helps you discover underlying barriers to long-term success, she explained.
Many people claim they want to change yet they don't - why? She thinks it's because
before you can change, you have to believe it's possible and be ready to work at it.
The book covers everything from making healthier food choices to exercise.
Franken agreed most overweight people aren't fans of exercise. "It's one of the
things people complain about most. But it has to be a part of a healthy lifestyle."
She made it a priority in her life: "I heard a financial adviser once say that you
should put away 10 per cent of your income off the top for your future wealth. I decided
to take 10 per cent off the top of my day and put it toward exercise as part of my future
health."
It's important to be proud of your accomplishments, she said, even small changes.
"If you do just one thing different each day in a more healthful way that makes you
proud, then you've had a great day."
What can be more positive than that?